Know your Worth

So after a few months single and out on the dating scene I have learned a few things.  Like if your immediately creeped out, you should totally excuse yourself within the first five minute and leave.  It won't get better I assure you.  Some men are so handsome and then you realize their looks are all they have to rely on because their brain is filled with rocks. Now I know that sounds horrible to say but sometimes the truth hurts.  There are the guys that are perfect in every sense of the word, unfortunately you haven't met them yet. However...............

I am actually not here to talk about all the things wrong with men that I have learned but rather what I have learned about women that have caused the decline of decent men to be available.  Are you ready for it?  Here is goes........

Women are making it too easy for men these days.

That's right, I said it.  What do I mean by it?  I mean we as women have become so willing to throw everything out there to keep the attention of a man.  Be it scantly dressed, overly sexual in demeanor or having sex with them right off the bat.

We give no chase to the game.  Men are hunters by nature and they enjoy the thrill of the chase.  However, these days it seems that instead of them being satisfied with our presence and getting to know us on a deeper level, if we haven't put out by the first or second date, they move on.

Many men have become lazy in the art of winning a ladies heart. Not to discredit all men in their acts of wooing, but there seem to be such a limited few that appreciate the amount of time, effort and work that go into the makings of a relationship.  A for real relationship, not a "friend" you call when you are feeling lonely or need some "release".

Ladies let's step up our game and not sell ourselves short. Let's give a man the opportunity to woo us, become truly interested and get to know us before we take our clothes off.  Let's be modest in our dress, so that when a man sees us he will not be distracted by us, from our true attributes (you know the kind that are on the inside, the one's that make up our character and personality). If that man isn't showing interest after he realizes he isn't getting "it", he isn't the one for you.  You will weed out the thistles by staying pure to yourself.

The world wants cheap, easy and fast.  Just because they demand it does not mean we have to supply it. Know your worth and demand to be treated in no way less.